"We've tried everything, yet our son remained secluded and addicted to screens. His enthusiasm for life dwindled, replaced by apathy and challenging phobias. His skills atrophied. His motivation diminished. It was a tough journey. James and De Andre were lifesavers. They were incredibly helpful, calm, and equipped with solutions for every obstacle."
Do you know of a young adult struggling to progress through life?
Parents! Do need some guidance on how best to launch your child into more independence?
Professionals! Do you need a trusted source to work alongside parents, their young adults and family?

If you’re the parent of a struggling young adult, you’re likely tired and worn down by how things have been, feeling disappointed that it ever got to this point and maybe even feeling hopeless and helpless. You probably want life to be better and may have tried all sorts of ways to get there. Many families have difficulty with this transition and are not exactly sure what to do.

Are these a challenge?

"We had lost hope after trying everything and consulting many professionals with no success. James and De Andre were invaluable in helping us turn things around. We are now grateful and enjoying life, knowing our son is doing well on his own."
  • Screen Dependency
  • Rebelliousness
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Apathy
  • Relational Difficulties
  • Sense of Entitlement
  • Substance Abuse
  • Perfectionism
  • Aggression

What do Young Adults Need Support for?

"The Life Launch Program changed my life. Before, I felt lost and overwhelmed. The coaches offered unwavering support and practical tools that helped me rebuild my confidence and resilience. Now, I’m living a fulfilling and purposeful life, equipped with the strength to face any challenges ahead."
  • Daily Planning & Organizing
  • Employment & Education
  • Financial Management
  • Recreation & Fitness
  • Hobbies & Interests
  • Health & Wellness

Underlying Causes of the Problems

"The coaches helped us identify the root problems we couldn't see. Their guidance made a real difference in our lives."

Here are some main reasons why families get stuck:

  • Strong Sense of Entitlement
  • Resistance/Rebelliousness
  • Lack of Requisite Skills
  • Lack of Opportunity
  • Laziness/Apathy
  • Excessive Fear
  • Guilt/Shame

The Solution

"De Andre is amazing—calm, positive, and never reactive. He achieved things with my son that I thought were impossible. The program offers flexible scheduling and easy entry. We're incredibly grateful for his impact on our family."

The goal is to role model, teach, guide, and promote the development of skills necessary for self-sufficiency, confidence, comfort, and capability. We aim to cultivate responsibility, resourcefulness, and resilience, preparing individuals to navigate life's inevitable difficulties.

  • Responsible
  • Resourceful
  • Resilient
  • Reliable
  • Respectful
  • Compliant
  • Cooperative
  • Confident
  • Capable
  • Comfortable

The Process

"If it wasn’t for the coaches' support, I don't know where we would be. They helped us navigate through such difficult times."

Your young adult will meet consistently with a life coach to develop the following and will benefit from a fresh new voice of influence:

  • Daily expectations of task and activity
  • Accountability system
  • Financial Planning
  • Proper diet, exercise, sleep, rest, work, and study routine
  • Communication and relational skills
  • Hobbies, interests, and activities
  • The ability and willingness to overcome fears
  • Strategies to defeat temptation, substance, screen, or other dependencies
  • Guidance toward their purpose
  • Adjustments to their inaccurate and unproductive beliefs

FAQs

How long does it take to see progress?
The time frame for seeing progress varies depending on several factors including the young adult's starting point, level of motivation, and the specific challenges being addressed. Some families see significant improvements within a few months, while others may need a longer engagement to build sustainable changes.
What qualifications do your life coaches have?
Our life coaches are highly trained professionals with backgrounds in psychology, counseling, and youth development. They have extensive experience working with young adults and are adept at tailoring their approach to meet individual needs and goals.
How often do the coaching sessions occur?
Coaching sessions typically occur once or twice a week, depending on what is most suitable for the young adult's schedule and needs. We also offer flexible scheduling to accommodate different time commitments and preferences.
What if my young adult is resistant to coaching?
Resistance is common but not insurmountable. Our coaches employ a compassionate and patient approach to build trust and encourage cooperation. We also provide strategies for parents to support their young adult’s willingness to engage in coaching.
Can I get involved in the process as a parent?
Absolutely! Parental involvement is often crucial to the success of the coaching process. We offer parent coaching sessions to help you support your young adult effectively and learn how to navigate this transition together.
Are the sessions conducted in-person or virtually?
We offer both in-person and virtual sessions to provide flexibility and accessibility to our families. Virtual sessions are conducted via secure video conferencing platforms, ensuring privacy and convenience.

Testimonials

“When my mom first told me about yet another person to try and help me, I fought it. Turns out De Andre was awesome! He was so calm and understanding. He challenged me to really think differently and to get up and get going.”
“We had lost all hope. Tried everything we could on our own. Sought out many professionals. Nothing worked. Finally, we worked with James and De Andre and they were invaluable in helping us get out of the mess we were in. We are grateful and now able to enjoy our lives much more, knowing our son is all right on his own.”
“I didn’t have the tools to be able to handle my daughter and it was taking me down physically and emotionally. The stress of that relationship was working its way into other parts of my life. Thankfully, a friend recommended James to us and my husband and I can honestly say that meeting him has forever changed our lives. We are still a work in progress, but James has given us the ability/tools/knowledge to handle real situations.” 

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